Marriage And Divorce Open Question What Is Going On With His Moods

My fiance and I are both 29 years old, and have been together for 2 years. Our families approve of our relationship, and we are a good match.My other half and I have an excellent relationship. Our only hardships right now are financial, and we band together to face them whenever possible. Just every 2-3 weeks his wavelength changes for about 1-2 days. Emotionally and mentally we struggle to connect during this time. He will push my buttons and his family's buttons and not even realize he's stirring everyone up. He will be bossy/controlling without realizing it about dumb things. He will become sensitive to criticism, and quick to jump to severe negativity about himself. Oddly, his driving becomes more aggressive at this time as well. During this time we bicker a lot. We are far too committed and bonded to do any permanent damage to our relationship, but I am out of options about what to do, because I simply don't understand what's going on. We try to talk it through, but that makes it worse, because without the mental/emotional connection everything gets taken wrong when we talk. What's most confusing is he loses his caretaking/overly concerned selfless side at this time, and is boarderline selfish. It is almost like he walls up his empathetic, sensitive self for a few days. Our relationship is based in honest, emotional expression and openness then suddenly that is cut off for a few days, we have to relearn how to articulate our words rather than just moving together by some unconscious understanding. He is faithful, kind, generous, honest, and a very good man. What is this? Have you ever gotten along with someone so well, and then seemed to lose connection for a few days before everything goes back to normal? Any idea what this is?

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