He May Not Feel Emotionally Prepared For Marriage

Your man just disappears, and you start thinking: If Barack Obama, the busiest man in the world, finds time for his family, why can’t mine find time for me? Can anyone be busier than the President himself? Even if he can give you plenty of reasons for his backing off, his commitment to you is visibly absent. He can say he loves you, but men show their love by their actions. If he really loved you, he’d find time; if he doesn’t find the time, good riddance. Still, it is worth looking at some specific reasons why men just disappear. Some may help you change the situation. Others may help you accept it. You try to control him too much You are a freak in the sense that you’ve become very possessive, demanding so much from him, and giving him obligations of doing this and that. When a man feels like you stand in his way when he likes to do something, he knows he will never be happy with you. When a woman tells a man that she won’t have sex unless she is positive that the relationship is going somewhere, he is driven away. He knows she is using sex to control him. He only wants sex Some men only want sex. Not all men are like this, but many men are. They will maintain a basically physical relationship, but when you start asking about where the relationship is going, they move onto the next relationship. This is one reason why men just disappear. There’s someone else If a man and a woman gets into the situation of �dating exclusively’ and then the guy suddenly becomes so cold and then simply leaves a girl hanging, then most probably there’s someone else. The other woman may be an ex he still loves, or somebody new he is smitten with. He may feel you are too good for him He may not feel emotionally prepared for marriage, but he sees you as wife material. If you are nice and decent, he may not be able to see you as a casual, just-for-having-fun girlfriend, and he may pull away for your sake. If he feels he doesn’t deserve you, it may be a matter of bad timing — men can quite suddenly come to see themselves as ready for marriage, and until then it seems impossible for them. The relationship is not progressing quickly enough for him Why do men just disappear after all those romantic dinners, hugs, and kisses? A common reason is that he is not seeing progress toward your going to bed together. Males are practical. How can a man possibly spend for all those elegant dinners and expensive gifts if there’s nothing in return? Sex is a driving force for men. Sex is not only a source of pleasure, but typically a man’s only path to human intimacy. If intimacy is not developing, he will need to seek it elsewhere. If you keep encountering this situation, think about it. Maybe the problem is with the man, but maybe you have to consider changing your old ways and starting with a new life with a different perspective. No related posts.