I Need With This Whole Crazy Situation

I've been seeing a man for a moment over 3 months now and he told me that he would be in grad academy for the followed by engagement and a short. Because I liked him so a great deal and we hit it off so well in the depart I was open to to spate dating him, usual nonetheless I knew we would not spend a lot of time together. I've made a lot of err a long the way in this "relationship". I had sex with him on our second date and we tirelessly has sex every time we saw each a good deal like. We never had a real conversation on if we were a hit and miss relationship a good deal than a first-class one where I held, "is this just sexual relationship to you?" and he held, "I don't hint". I didn't make him stem usual nonetheless I necessary exercise. I think I was apprehensive of the place. I cold having sex without a verbal conformity usual nonetheless I knew I was falling for him. Now 3 months later and I am feeling in person fall in love with him and I don't hint what to do. 2 weeks ago I got a call from him (which was earlier than strange like he's not a caller, he's leader of a texter) and he made it a point to tell me about some legal trouble he got in when he was younger in his teens. He was saying that his legal trouble we coming back to nest him in his job search. I care it was a stranger conversation like he's never fundamentally told me about fundamentally personal stuff formerly. And he was fundamentally dogmatic about me knowing, he usual called me at work (he's never CALLED me at work). I told him that he may perhaps come over and talk about it like I may perhaps tell he was fundamentally worked up about it. later that night he texted me saying that he got himself inebriated and that he couldn't goal to my rank and If I may perhaps come over to his place. Because I cared for him, and he was so to be decided, I told him I would go. As I was getting location to rip he cold texting me. He was saying that he was so cheerful that I would drop no matter which to see him and, "Thank you for being a friend at the very lowest amount".Some time ago I got grant he was Deeply inebriated. I tried to comfort him as a great deal as I may perhaps but it was no use. I ultimately told him that we necessary just go to sleep (we've left the night together formerly). Some time ago we ultimately got in the bed he started touching me. One unit lead to something else and we polished up having sex with each a good deal. Stylish the sex he asked me, "do you like me?" I was amazed like he's never TALKED to me because of sex and that it was such a strange question to the same degree OF Resources I like him. I told him "yes" and as asked him if he liked me (I didn't hint what to force at this point). He says to me, "yeah and I'm being so stupid." I didn't hint what that hypothetical so I held "why?" He says, "to the same degree I keep ing you". At that point I didn't hint what to say or do so I decided to give out until something else time to talk. While that he started to get a moment "broken up" with me and he started ache me. I screamed for him to get off of me and when he did he got fundamentally abundance (he does that when he doesn't hint what to do and is trying to think briskly) he asked, "do you still like me now?" in a sudden moment boy put together. I knew he didn't mean anything on side so I to him "yes". Some time ago it was over I started to get a moment to be decided (how may perhaps he not hint I liked him?) so I say, "do you like me, like fundamentally like me? Because sometimes if feels like you don't." He started to get pre-emptive and says, "of rule I like you. Why would you say that?" I didn't want to profess with a inebriated guy so I deceased it in parallel. So all of that, he fundamentally opened up to me about his life. He tells me about is family, his job and what he's put-on to get rid him his old legalize action. He's usual asked me to stall him a personal give a figure of for court of law. He's started craft me pet names (Fondness, boo, child, babe).a few time ago I was set to come over to his place and hang out with him and he was like, "you can come over but I won't exercise a great deal time." Pending week is competition and he has a lot of research to get overall. Jam in mind that we don't see each a good deal a lot and we miniature see each a good deal on the weekend to the same degree he uses that time for cram. I acknowledge that I totally over reacted and held told him that I didn't want to go anymore. He's not the type to pick up on a woman's anger so he just held, "give your blessing to, style." That pissed me off usual leader. I texted him back a few hours later (still pissed off) and held, "do you only see use as a causal relationship?" He texted back 10 account later with "I suspicious so. I like you as a person but I'm now then subjugated right now. I care you were looking at it the dreadfully way." At that point I'm furious and I told him that all I want to do now is give him back his stuff. He cold saying that he was life-threatening and says, " I understand if you don't want exercise sex any leader but does this mean we can't talk? I still want us to be friends," I told him this that we can talk anytime he sought-after to but I can't exercise sex with assistant that didn't feel anything for me. I asked him if I may perhaps give him back the few substance I exercise of his because of his dine break at work (we work in the dreadfully building) and he was very dogmatic about him coming by to get them. I asked him double up and he held sought-after to come by my rank to pick up a book (that he didn't want) and a USB pilfer goal (that time 10). I may perhaps exercise carried them back to him in my pod, no need to abuse gas over this. Dreamy he was insistent.The followed by day I felt bad about about putting him on the tarnish like that so I decided (right or incorrect) to apologizes. He was insistent that I didn't exercise to say life-threatening and that it was so big concession at that we we're all nervous out. He told me we would get together straight (upper limit geographical after competition and we can talk next). Like I'm asking is, do you think I necessary just back out now? I feel like he didn't say he was never going to feel anything for me, only that he was too subjugated right now, am I grasping at anything?Any opinion about anything I just held is cherished. Thanks for reading! :bunny: (That's so cute!)