If We Are Best Friends Why Heshe Doesnt Want To Do Everything Together

We've all met one of those couples who look so happy in their relationship. They smile and laugh together, flirt with each other and do almost everything together. She goes shopping and he carries her bags with a smile. He watches sports and she cheers for his team. Ask them their secret and they will say it's because they are best friends.

Do we envy them sometimes? Most couples don't do everything together, and those who do are the exception, not the norm. A committed monogamous relationship shouldn't mean you have to give up who you are, your career, friends or all interests you had before the relationship. When people are really right for one another they don't need all kinds of activities in order to enjoy their time together. Sometimes a woman just likes to go shopping with her friends and a guy likes to watch a sports game with his buddies.

A successful marriage or monogamous relationship does require the willingness to make some sacrifices in an effort to accommodate the other person. In a healthy relationship you must have communication, caring and compromise, but that doesn't mean you have to like all the same things. Marriage often leads to a larger understanding of the world, more people in our lives and a more mature and realistic take on how relationships work. If we married our clone, there would be little room for growth. It's always best if each partner concentrates on the things that brought them together, rather than the superficial differences.

As for those superficial differences - that's what friends are for.

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